Is Your Child Prepared for Puberty?

Greetings,

Are you having a good summer?  I surely hope so!

Some single moms and dads might have a son or daughter who is quickly approaching what is referred to as Puberty.  Puberty marks a major milestone in a child’s life as their body begins PHYSICAL preparation for the capability of reproduction.  It is another precious stage of development that signifies the beginning of a child’s gradual transition into adulthood.

Of course we know it will take some years before they mentally mature into what society considers an adult today. However, the physical preparation slowly begins so I thought I would take a few minutes to talk about this important stage of development.

The approximate age range children start showing signs of adolescents or puberty today is approximately 8-13, although it can begin earlier mainly due to additives and growth hormones in our food source.  Some noticeable physical symptoms are: underarm and pubic hair, breast development in girls, the deepening of voice in boys, facial hair in boys, and acne in both boys and girls.  One unique sign of puberty in girls that removes all doubt as to whether or not a young girl is entering this phase of development is the onset of menstruation.

These physical stages require specific changes in hygiene.  For example prior to puberty the need for deodorant may not have been necessary due to lower levels of hormones, but when puberty begins that immediately changes, so teaching proper bathing is especially important.

Considering the physical and mental changes that occur during this time it is critically important parents talk with their child regarding this new milestone. With this awareness, parents should begin mental preparation to ensure this topic of conversation takes place so that the child can be better prepared for the actual arrival of that special day.

Let them know it is healthy, normal, and extremely special!  Many culture have what is referred to as  “Coming of Age” celebrations to commemorate this transition in development.  It should be celebrated!  So, if you have not had “that talk’ plan for a time when you will if not today. You don’t want puberty to arrive before your conversation does.

There are many age appropriate books available that would be the perfect conversation starter if needed.  In addition, it can serve as a keepsake for your child to reference.  What is most important is that your child feels comfortable in talking with you, and they have some degree of understanding of  the forthcoming changes.

With a little pre thinking I am confident you will enjoy this discussion with your child as much as I did with my son and by the way, keep communication flowing to ensure the conversation never stops.

Have you talked with your child regarding puberty?  Was it an easy conversation?  What did your child find most meaningful?  Please let us know, this blog is for YOU so please interact and share experiences.

Questions and comments are always welcome.

Don’t forget to breathe~

Peace.