Happy New Year!

Greetings!

As unbelievable as it seems to me the 2016 holiday season has all but gone, and where I live on the east coast we are two hours from the verge of New Year’s Eve!

Like many of you, I have been reflecting over this past year as I always do as the old year comes to a close. I give thanks to a Higher Power for the love and protection that has followed me and those I love through another year.

2016 was bitter sweet with the tragic loss of several icons such as Prince, to David Bowie, to George Michael, to Carrie Fisher and more all gone way too soon. Another reminder of how short, unpredictable, and precious life really is.

Then there was the most unorthodox presidential campaign of our history which not only drastically divided our nation, but also lessened us as a nation and whose end results have placed us beneath the breadth of civility. We now prepare for assaults on basic human rights most Americans fear are yet to come.

As we approach the new year it might be difficult to think of it as a new beginning, but we must not only for our sake, but for the sake of our children. In whatever way we can we must keep our spirit fed as a diminished spirit is a defeated person. As hard as it might seem at times, we cannot allow that to happen.

Forgiveness of those who should love you but rather have hurt you does not dismiss the unfortunate actions they will have to answer for, but rather frees you for greater happiness, so do your best to “let it” go.  And what about the “other parent?”  Again, if he or she is a safe person what a perfect time to extend a bridge for them to be a greater part of your child’s life. Regardless of your feelings towards the other parent, the child is a part of the both of you so try to extend your gesture from that place of awareness. Don’t mislead yourself in believing it does not matter to your child because it does.  They yearn for that love.  I am sure that “other parent” wants to be a greater part of your child’s life, but they just might not quite know how to make that happen so as I always say, take the “higher road”, you won’t regret it.

As we begin the countdown to 2017 think of your blessings and ask your children about their blessings.

If you-like me, LOVE the thought of being at the “party of parties” on New Years Eve why not!  If you would rather see the old year out in a more subdued manner with those you love why not!  And if you would rather sleep it in, that’s ok too.  Whatever you choose to do remember to look at the faces of your children and express your love for them and gratefulness for their life.

Breathe….as we welcome in 2017.

All the best!!