Here we go!

Greetings!

Life events can cause us to pause for just a little bit so that we can regain or for me create some kind of balance in our lives. That explains my mini-absence as my forever evolving life takes on a new direction.  More on that to follow!  Just know I am happy to be back with you and I thank those of you who consistently “check” to see if I am still on the radar! I love you for that.

School is now out for summer break, can you believe it?  This milestone always causes me to reflect upon the welcomed yet “needs to be managed change” summer vacation brings. I have written about this previously.  If your child requires childcare you might be wondering where those coins are hidden in your already tight budget.  If your child is of legal age AND responsibile enough to stay home alone you probably feel some degree of guilt and wonder what you can do to ensure they still enjoy their break from school while still learning. Then there is the meal factor which should always be at the forefront, having healthy lunches available they can prepare without the use of a stove. These are just a few of the concerns summer vacation might bring.  Here are a couple of possible solutions:

If your child is of elementary through Junior High age check with your local “Y” to see what type of summer camp programs they are offering and gather specifics as to what that program looks like. If affordability is an issue inquire about scholarships that might be available to you based on your income.

Another possibility is your public library. Most libraries are undergoing a transformation that offers even better programs geared towards families and community support initiatives.  Either way, it is worth the exploration and one of the most important aspects is both the “Y” and library will offer a positive ongoing learning environment for your children.  Thank about it, if a child is surrounded by books what are they most likely to do?

What about your child’s non-custodial parent?  This is one of many reasons why having a healthy ongoing relationship with your child’s “other half” can serve as a “win/win” for everyone. If you have not established a respectful honest relationship with that person I encourage you to do so as long as he or she is safe.  Put spite and anomosity aside, children will grow up and seek the truth.  Reaching out from a place of genuine humaneness is in everyone’s best interest.

Also, don’t forget about grandparents. Many are retired and would love nothing more than to offer their love and support when and however they can.

I hope this helps you somewhat as these hot summer days are upon us!  It will be “Back to School” before you know it-I promise, so enjoy this phase, enjoy these days. I would love to have them back!

Let me know how you are, what your greatest challenge has been or is. I would love to hear from you!

Peace~