Time for Prom!

Greetings!

Can you believe it is Prom time?  In spite of my inoperable “works when it feels like it” blog page I am amazed that we are once again at this time of year.  Not that long ago I was welcoming you back to the start of another school year, and here we are again, almost at the end.

I thought to take a minute to talk to you about Prom night which often turns out to be either your child’s first date, and/or the fanciest most memorable party honoring their high school experience as they quickly approach the end of their high school years.  Either way, what a special time!

This causes me to reflect upon my senior prom which I attended with a few girlfriends. Because I did not date in high school I never received “the talk” that I hope all children are receiving today even though reasoning tells me differently. What I mean by “the talk” is conversation about drugs, alcohol, dating violence, peer pressure, and sex. You see, regardless of what a parent may want to think teens are talking, listening, experimenting in some ways, and are being “taught or influenced” by their peers.

It is of utmost importance children hear from their parents or guardian regarding these topics. Not only is it important they hear from you whether they tell you or not they NEED to hear from you on these life changing subjects.

Aside from school chaperones prom night is often a first for young men to be able to pick up their date and provide transportation without the presence of an adult. More often than not they will double with a friend. My son did and yes, we had “that talk’ more than once long before prom.

So as you help prepare your son or daughter for that very special evening make certain appropriate conduct, manners, and safety is a part of that foundation. Either way, they will remember that night forever.

For more on the importance of dating safety and respect, grab your copy of “Single And ApParent” available at all major bookstores as well as Amazon.com .

Peace~